In the days leading up to Veterans Day our pages have been full of letters, columns and articles and photos dedicated to the importance of this day.

Many are still feeling the touch of the amazing ceremony staged Sunday in Utica. (See our coverage in today's Times.)Most ceremonies will be Wednesday, the official day of recognition. A roundup of scheduled events was in Saturday's Times.

As a reminder, the Ottawa program kicks off at 10 a.m. in Washington Square.Posting of colors and the ceremony in Streator will begin at 10:45 a.m. at Veterans Plaza in City Park.Aerial bombs will be set off at 11 a.m. in the parking lot across from the Marseilles firehouse, 205 Lincoln St.Seneca High School will present a video documentary to honor all veterans at 8:05 a.m. on Channel 6.Somonauk community veterans will be honored at 8:40 a.m. at the Somonauk High School gymnasium, 500 W. La Salle St.

Each year many of us struggle with difficult memories but understand all too well the importance of thanking those who serve and protect our country and what it stands for.

Attending these local programs is important. It helps send a message that we have not forgotten and we still care. Just seeing our flag, the salutes, the uniforms and hearing the solemn words are stirring reminders that we have a great country and a strong people.

Most ceremonies are short and to the point. Perhaps families also should consider adding something more to your day. Something for your own family and something for those veterans who cannot attend the ceremonies.

Consider a visit to a nursing home or the Veterans Home in La Salle at 1015 O'Conor Ave., where no doubt a veteran would appreciate a smile and a thank-you, even from a stranger. Call ahead and ask how you can help.

Then look to your family and friends. They, too, appreciate a nod or a hug and some form of acknowledgement that they gave up part of their life to serve. If they came home, they came home different from the person who left. That too needs to be recognized. If they have memories they cannot or do not want to share, understand that.

Many families have veterans who have passed or did not return safely from battle. They are not forgotten, but help children and grandchildren understand the importance of their sacrifice.

At the very least, set aside a moment of silent gratitude for the armistice that ended World War I in 1918 at the 11th hour on the 11th day of the 11th month.